Just keep tweaking it to your liking? I don't know what to tell you, buddy. Literal trillions of people figured out a way to enjoy skyrim.

How about making a rule for yourself that you can post for a carriage ride, but only to major cities? Limit pack capacity for each category of item? Only cook at campsites or kitchens?

The only question that needs answering: will I be able to crabwalk in the remaster?