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7/16/2025, 10:09:23 PM
How do you deal with workplace cliques? I was a consultant promoted some time ago, and despite efforts to be helpful to others I got a "bad" performance review by a overly zealous manager who said because I wasnt as close the the "in group", I was not going to be supported as much and that it was my responsibility to be closer with them. I try to put my head down, help others when asked, get my work done and enjoy life outside of work, but it feels if I have to erode my personal life to succeed and suck up to people I don't really care for.
7/14/2025, 9:52:23 AM
Why do porn addicts often have specific fetishes? Some like furries, some incest, some trannies... Why? It's almost as if there's some specific route where porn addicts are taken depending on their personalities
7/14/2025, 9:45:29 AM
Why do porn addicts often have specific fetishes? Some like furries, some incest, some trannies... Why? It's almost as if there's some specific route where porn addicts are taken depending on their personalities
7/13/2025, 2:27:05 PM
Does gooning cause hair loss?
7/12/2025, 2:37:34 PM
20, typical "femcel" archetype (as a label, not that I think they exist).
As a teen I'd reject everything I wanted as a shield. I'm ugly so I'd take pride in being unkempt rather than put in effort and still look like a pig. I couldn't make friends so I'd be proud of being a weird loner and look down on "normal" people, etc.
In adulthood I've found that though I can now admit that I want(ed) these things, I feel no desire anymore. The "shields" are no longer there but I now vastly prefer my own company, putting no effort in and enjoy coming off as weird, creepy, socially stunted if not for a pathetic sense of 'look at what you helped do to me' if I ever ran into an old classmate (they wouldn't care regardless, I know that, but I still cling onto it regardless).
Being like this is throwing my life away and I've already wasted so much time. I know I will waste my potential to be better being a lonely freak but the idea of anything else or not being contrarian to all things 'normal' and 'good' is revolting. Yet I know deep down I'm filled with regret and unhappiness. It's easier to be this way but I'd try to change in a heartbeat if I wanted it but I don't and that's the issue.
As a teen I'd reject everything I wanted as a shield. I'm ugly so I'd take pride in being unkempt rather than put in effort and still look like a pig. I couldn't make friends so I'd be proud of being a weird loner and look down on "normal" people, etc.
In adulthood I've found that though I can now admit that I want(ed) these things, I feel no desire anymore. The "shields" are no longer there but I now vastly prefer my own company, putting no effort in and enjoy coming off as weird, creepy, socially stunted if not for a pathetic sense of 'look at what you helped do to me' if I ever ran into an old classmate (they wouldn't care regardless, I know that, but I still cling onto it regardless).
Being like this is throwing my life away and I've already wasted so much time. I know I will waste my potential to be better being a lonely freak but the idea of anything else or not being contrarian to all things 'normal' and 'good' is revolting. Yet I know deep down I'm filled with regret and unhappiness. It's easier to be this way but I'd try to change in a heartbeat if I wanted it but I don't and that's the issue.
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