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6/14/2025, 12:10:30 PM
>>81488383
>when you don't feel ready for it yet
Ignore this feeling anon. You don't have time.
>because of crippling anxiety.
Get meds for it if you need, but beyond that you need to stop retreating into your comfort zone all the time. I almost ruined my life because of it, plenty of people here ruined their lives because of it. You're young so you feel like you have time to waste woeismeing and navel-gazing, you don't. Life is largely a race. Or maybe think of it as an escalator. If you're not walking up the stairs, you're not staying in one place, you're actually regressing. You have to consistently make the right choices, which are almost always less appealing than the bad ones. A plate of vegs/meat/legumes instead of ready-made goyslop. Hanging out with people instead of staying home playing vidya and touching yourself. Working out instead of being a couch potato.
>Any help?
Like most humans you're probably looking for a quick fix, something that will let you dodge discomfort and suffering. There is no such thing. You have to endure the pain, the discomfort, the grueling work, in time you'll get better at it, but you can't dodge it. If you do, you will end up in a place worse than anything you can imagine. You CAN get your shit together but you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Also in my case the incremental changes and mindfulness/meditation whatever thingies never worked, what worked was raw discipline, quitting bad stuff cold turkey and sticking to it. There might be other approaches than these you have to find what works for you, but don't get discouraged if something someone suggested doesn't work, find another strategy.
>when you don't feel ready for it yet
Ignore this feeling anon. You don't have time.
>because of crippling anxiety.
Get meds for it if you need, but beyond that you need to stop retreating into your comfort zone all the time. I almost ruined my life because of it, plenty of people here ruined their lives because of it. You're young so you feel like you have time to waste woeismeing and navel-gazing, you don't. Life is largely a race. Or maybe think of it as an escalator. If you're not walking up the stairs, you're not staying in one place, you're actually regressing. You have to consistently make the right choices, which are almost always less appealing than the bad ones. A plate of vegs/meat/legumes instead of ready-made goyslop. Hanging out with people instead of staying home playing vidya and touching yourself. Working out instead of being a couch potato.
>Any help?
Like most humans you're probably looking for a quick fix, something that will let you dodge discomfort and suffering. There is no such thing. You have to endure the pain, the discomfort, the grueling work, in time you'll get better at it, but you can't dodge it. If you do, you will end up in a place worse than anything you can imagine. You CAN get your shit together but you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Also in my case the incremental changes and mindfulness/meditation whatever thingies never worked, what worked was raw discipline, quitting bad stuff cold turkey and sticking to it. There might be other approaches than these you have to find what works for you, but don't get discouraged if something someone suggested doesn't work, find another strategy.
6/12/2025, 4:38:47 PM
>>81471094
Eh, I've actually thought about it and researched it a lot. Becoming truly free is a lot of work. What's very easy to do is deluding yourself into thinking you've made it. A bit like all the fools here who proudly declare that they've "given up on women".
>>81471115
That would be great news, but I doubt it.
Eh, I've actually thought about it and researched it a lot. Becoming truly free is a lot of work. What's very easy to do is deluding yourself into thinking you've made it. A bit like all the fools here who proudly declare that they've "given up on women".
>>81471115
That would be great news, but I doubt it.
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