my gf showed me all her scars from her cat and past and then she pointed out some and tried to make it a lighthearted thing that they were selfharm scars but she got this sort of embarrassed and distant tone
so i grabbed her forearm and kissed them and she buried her face into my chest with a soft little noise and it was really cute

my sexuality cannot be defined by lesbian
im attracted to women and only women but i feel like lesbian is too cis-centric of a term for my sexuality
does that make sense