Ur gonna have to make it urself

A girl I was taking to on facebook told me about how she snuck out of her parent’s house as a teen, met up with a guy who gave her drugs, and he “did things to her.” She became addicted to the drugs and is now “repented of her past.”

I was pretty disgusted by the entire story, but as a thought experiment, I imagined the genders in reverse, and I honestly wouldn’t be too disturbed (mostly indifferent) if a guy did what she did. Is this cultural conditioning? Do you view it differently depending on gender?