how do i fix this thing where i can't be attracted to men who act desperate/simp-y at all because my type is my old crush who was the opposite of desperate around women? how do i change my type?

99% of the time he kind of ignored me and almost never made eye contact, but he also once randomly said i look attractive (after which he always ignored me again, and at some point a bit later moved far away, so i haven't seen him in a long time). at some point i realized he had essentially become my "type", and this still seems to be the case.

also he wasn't an ultra chad or anything imo. i think i just get obsessed with specific people easily. he was 5'8", around 30 y/o and really really skinny.

i haven't done the code thing yet for my rerolled account, anyone want to use mine then i'll use yours? idk how many i can invite but i haven't used anyone's code yet.
here's mine: WkzkWGe