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7/22/2025, 5:21:22 AM
give it to me straight. if you come from a country that ends in -stan what is the best way to get a college gf like her to genuinely love and cherish you
6/15/2025, 3:34:39 AM
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About a year ago, when we were still on good terms, I texted her after she helped me through a rough week: "You’re seriously my angel, thank you." It was meant casually, like calling someone a guardian angel. She never responded and has not texted me since. A few days later, I found out she brought it up in front of two mutual friends, implying I was being emotionally clingy or romantic. I did not argue, but it made me look like a creep. That is the only time you could possibly say I did something "wrong."
The second time was at a party at her place. She lives with my best friend and another girl. One of her friends jokingly called me mysterious because I gave a vague answer to a question. She immediately cut in with, "Only because he doesn’t know how to talk to women." I had not even spoken to her that night. It felt like she had to shut down the idea that I might be interesting. Other guys said hornier things that night and did not get that kind of treatment. I let it slide since she said it in front of people I barely knew.
Last winter, we were in a group chat planning a cabin trip. Someone joked about room pairings, and she replied, "Just make sure certain people aren’t with others, don’t even joke." No one had mentioned me, and she did not name anyone, but everyone clearly knew it was "me." The conversation shifted and people started arranging things so she and I would not be near each other. It was like she had to distance herself even from the idea of being around me. I thought my friends would understand their text was misread and I was not trying to pursue her, but instead they started treating me like I needed to be managed. I keep trying to get them to set up a situation where they are around and I can socialize with her to prove I don't blush or stutter or act flirty but they just say to drop it.
No one will say anything to my face, but I am being treated as the one person who could ruin the dynamic if I am not micromanaged.
About a year ago, when we were still on good terms, I texted her after she helped me through a rough week: "You’re seriously my angel, thank you." It was meant casually, like calling someone a guardian angel. She never responded and has not texted me since. A few days later, I found out she brought it up in front of two mutual friends, implying I was being emotionally clingy or romantic. I did not argue, but it made me look like a creep. That is the only time you could possibly say I did something "wrong."
The second time was at a party at her place. She lives with my best friend and another girl. One of her friends jokingly called me mysterious because I gave a vague answer to a question. She immediately cut in with, "Only because he doesn’t know how to talk to women." I had not even spoken to her that night. It felt like she had to shut down the idea that I might be interesting. Other guys said hornier things that night and did not get that kind of treatment. I let it slide since she said it in front of people I barely knew.
Last winter, we were in a group chat planning a cabin trip. Someone joked about room pairings, and she replied, "Just make sure certain people aren’t with others, don’t even joke." No one had mentioned me, and she did not name anyone, but everyone clearly knew it was "me." The conversation shifted and people started arranging things so she and I would not be near each other. It was like she had to distance herself even from the idea of being around me. I thought my friends would understand their text was misread and I was not trying to pursue her, but instead they started treating me like I needed to be managed. I keep trying to get them to set up a situation where they are around and I can socialize with her to prove I don't blush or stutter or act flirty but they just say to drop it.
No one will say anything to my face, but I am being treated as the one person who could ruin the dynamic if I am not micromanaged.
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