>>105632360
you think my argument is childish wait till you see this

>>105585608
well it sort of is and also isn't.
being offended by something means you value their opinion as something more than it is, and being too sensitive about that opinions impact on you.
it being involuntary means you're just not of a healthy mindset and don't have your impulses and mental state figured out. though there are few who truly do.
it's not about not caring it's about taking things at value. and letting your past experiences of upbringing means you haven't taken it under your own control yet.
having insecurities, getting hurt, just tells you where you need to direct your effort to improve your mental state. it's helpful, when you think about it. an opportunity.
there is no growth without adversity, and if you remove all adversity there will be only stagnation.