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7/2/2025, 10:03:15 AM
If they want you to remain single and in mourning for the rest of your life, then they don't really love you in my opinion. If they love you, they'd want you to continue with your life and be happy. It's not like you were even married or had kids together with her. And if your dead ex-fiance loved you, she'd want you to be happy, she'd want you to continue with your life as well.
You don't have to stop being friendly with them, maybe some of them will be offended but I think they'd get past that. Maybe you'd have to go your separate ways or maybe it'd be too awkward to stay friends. You're just gonna have to rip the bandage off at some point and tell them and let the chips fall where they may. You don't have to make some awkward announcement at a dinner table about it, just open up to those you're closer to and see how they react, I'm sure they'll tell each other fairly quickly. Maybe they'll be glad for you and hope your new relationship works out. Maybe they blow up and throw stuff at you until you leave and never show your face to them again.
>The thing is, I’ve been seeing someone new for 6 months now. First time I’ve felt even remotely okay again.
You should also make sure you're feeling okay on your own terms or from within rather than from without, rather than from someone else or a honeymoon period with someone new. If you're relying on someone else to be happy or fulfilled then you're likely to be disappointed in the end. I'd recommend getting saved by believing the gospel, that Jesus died for your sins and God raised him the third day if you really want to be okay in the way which matters most.
You don't have to stop being friendly with them, maybe some of them will be offended but I think they'd get past that. Maybe you'd have to go your separate ways or maybe it'd be too awkward to stay friends. You're just gonna have to rip the bandage off at some point and tell them and let the chips fall where they may. You don't have to make some awkward announcement at a dinner table about it, just open up to those you're closer to and see how they react, I'm sure they'll tell each other fairly quickly. Maybe they'll be glad for you and hope your new relationship works out. Maybe they blow up and throw stuff at you until you leave and never show your face to them again.
>The thing is, I’ve been seeing someone new for 6 months now. First time I’ve felt even remotely okay again.
You should also make sure you're feeling okay on your own terms or from within rather than from without, rather than from someone else or a honeymoon period with someone new. If you're relying on someone else to be happy or fulfilled then you're likely to be disappointed in the end. I'd recommend getting saved by believing the gospel, that Jesus died for your sins and God raised him the third day if you really want to be okay in the way which matters most.
6/21/2025, 5:25:55 PM
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If you were to separate real Christians who are saved by grace through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ alone from all the fake Christians who believe in salvation by works (or a self-righteous hypocrite Pharisee false gospel), you'd see it's less than Muslims. Also, the Anon makes a good point, that probably doesn't count the Jihadist suicide bombers. And the only guarantee Islam gives of entrance to heaven is by committing Jihad because Islam, like every other false religion, teaches salvation by works, and if salvation is based on what you do or promise to do or do in the future, you can't have any assurance of salvation; but if it's based on what God already did for you through Jesus Christ as the Bible teaches, then you can know you're going to heaven.
>nooo how dare you say Catholics aren't Christian
Yeah, when they'd literally burn you to death for owning or translating the Bible. Fucking SJW retards cry like idiots when you speak the truth and they don't know any history. Older generation Catholics will literally tell you "I'm not a Christian, I'm a Catholic" but somewhere along the line, Catholics were brainwashed to act like SJW brats if you don't call their pagan idolatrous cult "Christian" despite that they teach Mary is a comediator and cosavior when the Bible plainly says only Jesus saves and only Jesus is the mediator.
Also, don't get mad at me, I didn't bring up the topic. I'm just answering.
If you were to separate real Christians who are saved by grace through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ alone from all the fake Christians who believe in salvation by works (or a self-righteous hypocrite Pharisee false gospel), you'd see it's less than Muslims. Also, the Anon makes a good point, that probably doesn't count the Jihadist suicide bombers. And the only guarantee Islam gives of entrance to heaven is by committing Jihad because Islam, like every other false religion, teaches salvation by works, and if salvation is based on what you do or promise to do or do in the future, you can't have any assurance of salvation; but if it's based on what God already did for you through Jesus Christ as the Bible teaches, then you can know you're going to heaven.
>nooo how dare you say Catholics aren't Christian
Yeah, when they'd literally burn you to death for owning or translating the Bible. Fucking SJW retards cry like idiots when you speak the truth and they don't know any history. Older generation Catholics will literally tell you "I'm not a Christian, I'm a Catholic" but somewhere along the line, Catholics were brainwashed to act like SJW brats if you don't call their pagan idolatrous cult "Christian" despite that they teach Mary is a comediator and cosavior when the Bible plainly says only Jesus saves and only Jesus is the mediator.
Also, don't get mad at me, I didn't bring up the topic. I'm just answering.
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