Yeah man the internet isn't what it used to be. Most public places are controlled by power hungry moderators who look for these kinds of things to smack someone down for. You basically have to be at work at all times in any public forum. With the exception of this place, and specific discords, the forum scene is dead. Too many people want to run it like you're literally at work again. That's really the best advice I can give you, look for a Discord that allows spurging out. I'm in a few myself and you can get away with so much more because it's tailored to people just like you. People here complain about Discord but they also sit here and spout contrarian opinions about being able to mouth off.
>>Hurr agree to ToS, get angry, get banned!
Durr shouldn't have been human, dumb CHUD! I'm actually glad the internet is this way now!

Is everyone retarded? A lot of younger males do this because approaching a woman normally is something they don't have confidence in. They might be considered a creep by their compatriots, or called thirsty, lonely, desperate, horny, etc, any matter of insults to regular male sexuality. It's gotten to the point now where they've gotten used to it, and try to play it off as a joke, but in the end, a lot of men are just horny and lonely and have no vent publicly except amongst their small groups. No longer is it the norm to just outright say "I want to have sex with that woman" unless you are from a different generation or one of the dwindling number of Zoomers that don't give a fuck about female approval. Which is ironic, because those the ones that get laid. Not the good little submissive types that act in accordance to social media "laws". You see this shit much more prevalently in VR chat. It's an epidemic of lonely, non self confident men.