Let me tell you all something, it is far easier to approach women, and even people, who are openly friendly than closed off. Never approach someone who after dealing with a ton of trauma starts getting paranoid about you from your friendliness. Like we all can come off as sketchy at times and it is good to look out for it, but someone who over does it and is being paranoid, just avoid them.

Appearance is not everything.

Never be around people who no matter what they refuse to see the good in you, especially when you put blood, sweat, and tears into it.