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7/10/2025, 6:00:05 PM
>>81778778
As a weird kid, it was interesting to find a space where the sense of community (such as it was) was based on being an outsider of one kind or another. It was 4chan so naturally that came with a lot of hate and bigotry. Now I come back as an adult for something like OP's pic related. There's more kids on the "wow we hate being virgins" board than anyone cares to admit, and I know how easily the shit here could've sent me down a bad path. The kids need guidance, but at the same time, there does seem to be less straight up "woman hate threads" and the transphobic spam seems to have finally subsided. All things considered, compared to how it was before, I think the kids are gonna be alright.
As a weird kid, it was interesting to find a space where the sense of community (such as it was) was based on being an outsider of one kind or another. It was 4chan so naturally that came with a lot of hate and bigotry. Now I come back as an adult for something like OP's pic related. There's more kids on the "wow we hate being virgins" board than anyone cares to admit, and I know how easily the shit here could've sent me down a bad path. The kids need guidance, but at the same time, there does seem to be less straight up "woman hate threads" and the transphobic spam seems to have finally subsided. All things considered, compared to how it was before, I think the kids are gonna be alright.
6/20/2025, 12:45:10 AM
>>81546265
>but I really loved her
I know man, nothing ever hits quite like that first time.
>for the best
The upshot is it definitely gets better, when you're both a little more experienced you're less insecure and more in touch with what you really want.
My highschool oneitis knew how down bad I was for her, and by her own admission used me like a kind of emotional insurance policy. That was obviously selfish but were both dumb kids. The first time I actually got treated right by someone who really wanted me it changed everything all over again. Don't sell yourself short, you deserve someone who really wants to be with you.
>but I really loved her
I know man, nothing ever hits quite like that first time.
>for the best
The upshot is it definitely gets better, when you're both a little more experienced you're less insecure and more in touch with what you really want.
My highschool oneitis knew how down bad I was for her, and by her own admission used me like a kind of emotional insurance policy. That was obviously selfish but were both dumb kids. The first time I actually got treated right by someone who really wanted me it changed everything all over again. Don't sell yourself short, you deserve someone who really wants to be with you.
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