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Hi I'm really sorry you have to go through all of this, even after what's supposed to be adulthood

I'm the Asian anon from that one thread where my mom forced me to break my lease and commute. My immediate recommendation is for you to get some sort of job - any, really - so that you can have your own income. That way it'd be easier for you to tell them "no" when needed. But I understand the economy's ass in every sector, which I'm currently dealing with the fallout of.

In theory? They must heed your "no" no matter what they think. But in practice? Sadly they don't have any obligation to keep financially supporting you either, and can use your dependence on them as a sort of trap, inducing arrested development and whatnot. My mom can inspect my banking records, mess around my room without my prior authorization, and even control the way I dress and style my hair. I'm also LGBT so can definitely understand your struggle.

I agree it def sucks to have to be like this past adulthood, and I agree our current issues with this are def causing one of our biggest blackpills ever.

For context I'm an unemployable CS/DS major and my dad has said he'd be willing to bail me out for an entry level job where he works.

For context last month my dad told me about this chinese event for chinese zoomers that he was interested in, like it was some organization of Chinese immigrants from my dad's region and it's set to take place next month.

Now we're in the car going to a gathering for July 4th. Mom's driving like 45 mph in a 65 zone, with gay Chinese pop to "calm her down", since she's her cowardly self. And then I ask about it again and my dad said it's too late to sign up, and when I gave him hell for not signing me up despite expressing interest on multiple occasions, and then he and my mom told me they were kinda glad I wasn't going since they were concerned I'd chimped out. He also said he was no longer sure if he'd bail me out for both jobs, and support in general.

Later at the restaurant it was one of those Chinese places where they were serving peanuts as an appetizer. For context I'm allergic but not airborne, but my parents/school had me sit at the peanut table for years (with a lunch aide too). But just to drive them nuts (pun intended), I just ate a zillion of them until they demanded I stop. They literally threatened to get up and leave because I was "making a scene" - ironically, they were the ones making a scene. The waitress was pissed af.

Am sick and tired of being told "no" all the time in my life.