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7/14/2025, 5:31:06 PM
I am slowly but surely making peace with the fact I need to be alone for a good portion of my life, to keep me and those I care about secure and safe.
Slowly but surely.
My life was the result of objectively bad decisions, but there's no reason I can't perform damage control and escape my current predicaments.
>found the fucker and included a small addendum that was made to it
Thank you, I appreciate the effort.
>And even then it can quite quickly feel like it is all for naught all on one's own, yeah
Yeah.
>Alright then I suppose what you need is something to latch onto. Some people like to cook, others like to exercise, others again like to garden. Whatever it is, it needs to be something you can ideally do every day, something that is in your power
I can focus on on studying, job searches and drawing I think.
I really need and want money, I don't want to live at the mercy and generosity of others anymore.
>It does not have to be the same thing every day but it must be something every day. Saturdays, my thing is going out for a coffee. It as been for almost 20 years now, originally going window shopping but the principle stands
So, like small habitual habits that keep me going on a weekly basis?
>It can be anything from meal prep to stretches to something as simple as a small ritual of personal significance
I see, sounds reasonable.
>Dwell on it a bit and tell me if you can dream up something of that sort
I have a few I can consider.
But, I will keep thinking about it for now until I can find a more resolute answer.
>And thank you for indulging mine!
I appreciate being able to talk to someone about these things without the fear of repercussions.
Slowly but surely.
My life was the result of objectively bad decisions, but there's no reason I can't perform damage control and escape my current predicaments.
>found the fucker and included a small addendum that was made to it
Thank you, I appreciate the effort.
>And even then it can quite quickly feel like it is all for naught all on one's own, yeah
Yeah.
>Alright then I suppose what you need is something to latch onto. Some people like to cook, others like to exercise, others again like to garden. Whatever it is, it needs to be something you can ideally do every day, something that is in your power
I can focus on on studying, job searches and drawing I think.
I really need and want money, I don't want to live at the mercy and generosity of others anymore.
>It does not have to be the same thing every day but it must be something every day. Saturdays, my thing is going out for a coffee. It as been for almost 20 years now, originally going window shopping but the principle stands
So, like small habitual habits that keep me going on a weekly basis?
>It can be anything from meal prep to stretches to something as simple as a small ritual of personal significance
I see, sounds reasonable.
>Dwell on it a bit and tell me if you can dream up something of that sort
I have a few I can consider.
But, I will keep thinking about it for now until I can find a more resolute answer.
>And thank you for indulging mine!
I appreciate being able to talk to someone about these things without the fear of repercussions.
7/13/2025, 11:36:14 PM
Urgh.. summer.
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>>40373993
>Pretending I am a worthwhile person does occasionally help me out
In the long run you will eventually get to learn to believe it, but I get what you are saying.
>I have a hard time fully explaining myself or my circumstances well.
That is normal, don't you worry!
>Failure feels like me stabbed to me.
We as people often conflating failing we being a failure, I find. It.. gets easier the more failures we experience at least, as long as we have a "safe landing" experiencing them.
>I get overloaded by things far too easily.
Which ties partially into the grounding thing I think we discussed before.
>If be okay with looking at a silly comic.
I found the fucker and included a small addendum that was made to it.
>Nothing major gets done on an individual level, unless you're insanely capable.
And even then it can quite quickly feel like it is all for naught all on one's own, yeah.
>>40374083
>Yeah, that's exactly what I need.
>Something to give me more direction.
Alright then I suppose what you need is something to latch onto. Some people like to cook, others like to exercise, others again like to garden. Whatever it is, it needs to be something you can ideally do every day, something that is in your power. It does not have to be the same thing every day but it must be something every day. Saturdays, my thing is going out for a coffee. It as been for almost 20 years now, originally going window shopping but the principle stands. It can be anything from meal prep to stretches to something as simple as a small ritual of personal significance. Dwell on it a bit and tell me if you can dream up something of that sort.
>Thank you for indulging my ramblings
And thank you for indulging mine!
>>40373863
>>40373955
>>40373993
>Pretending I am a worthwhile person does occasionally help me out
In the long run you will eventually get to learn to believe it, but I get what you are saying.
>I have a hard time fully explaining myself or my circumstances well.
That is normal, don't you worry!
>Failure feels like me stabbed to me.
We as people often conflating failing we being a failure, I find. It.. gets easier the more failures we experience at least, as long as we have a "safe landing" experiencing them.
>I get overloaded by things far too easily.
Which ties partially into the grounding thing I think we discussed before.
>If be okay with looking at a silly comic.
I found the fucker and included a small addendum that was made to it.
>Nothing major gets done on an individual level, unless you're insanely capable.
And even then it can quite quickly feel like it is all for naught all on one's own, yeah.
>>40374083
>Yeah, that's exactly what I need.
>Something to give me more direction.
Alright then I suppose what you need is something to latch onto. Some people like to cook, others like to exercise, others again like to garden. Whatever it is, it needs to be something you can ideally do every day, something that is in your power. It does not have to be the same thing every day but it must be something every day. Saturdays, my thing is going out for a coffee. It as been for almost 20 years now, originally going window shopping but the principle stands. It can be anything from meal prep to stretches to something as simple as a small ritual of personal significance. Dwell on it a bit and tell me if you can dream up something of that sort.
>Thank you for indulging my ramblings
And thank you for indulging mine!
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