>>40757883
>What sort of afterlife is she having if any
that's up to you
after my friend died I met a shaman who instructed me in a ritual he performed after all his friends died
he called it "phowa" or compared it to that but unlike the real tibetan practices this one doesn't necessarily conflict with your agnostic/atheistic beliefs
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first thing in the morning before you open your eyes and again right after you close your eyes to go to bed in the evening, do this:
1. visualize yourself as a colored light in a black void
2. visualize her as a colored light in a black void
3. use your light to shine light on hers, like a spotlight illuminating
4. hold it for a few seconds, then end the visualization
repeat daily until you experience a confirmation, message, etc. (took me a week)
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my friend became telepathic with me about two years later btw and confirmed this ritual extracted her from a dantesque "suicide forest" hellscape, or more specifically the light showed her a path to a portal to a better realm

>>40710062
There are 12 superior gods
>who's-who for picrel:
>https://art.thewalters.org/object/23.40/