When playing The Thing what should my positioning be like? I really hate how the The Thing feels like fucking paper and how I have to be afraid of so much shit. I have to be careful when fighting against fucking Emma Frost because I can be choked for some reason. I think his earthbind ability is very useful because has some really janky interactions. Like it knocking up enemies far enough outside of the earth bind range that they can use their dashes. I have definitely "Caught" black panthers but the pop up knocked them up high enough that they dash anyway. I am glad they gave the thing some mobility though towards enemies. It just feels so weird to play him because you don't feel tanky at all. In fact, I think the only tank that actually feels durable is probably Venom and / or Peni when standing on webs and shit.

I hadn't had my first kiss up until recently and I am 30 unfortunately. Anyway, I had been on two dates with her and she kissed me at the start of our second date. Not even at the end. Externally I did like it but internally I felt upset and defeated. Mostly because I had built up in my head of what my first kiss would be like. I had already sort of planned it and I was basically going to try and kiss her at the end of the 4th or 5th date. I wanted it to be me initiating it so I could finally show myself that I am capable of doing something like that. However, she ruined it all and kissed me first. Unfortunately things didn't really pan out and she chose not to see me again 2 dates after that. Which maybe was my fault because I wouldn't return her texts until a day after sometimes. She told me she felt like I was distancing myself but I think I naturally may be a distant person. I am not sure because I don't date much. What I need help with is processing feelings like this and just figuring out how I should act. I think I just don't know how to function when it comes to dating or romance or even kissing. When she kissed me I wasn't ready at all and people told me I should be able to feel when the first kiss is coming and I can't. So I just feel really lost in it. It also probably doesn't help that I think I am an autistic freak who is lucky to get any attention from women.