Why do women often seem more two-faced than men? There’s this female coworker of mine who acts super sweet around me, always asking about my day, offering to help with tasks, and talking to me like we’re friends. I return the favor by helping her out with her own work. But recently, I found out from another coworker I’m close with (who she doesn’t know I talk to) that she’s been talking a lot of crap about me during cigarette breaks, criticizing my being behind my back and also talking real smack about others

I know this is the workplace and shit like this is inevitable, but it still kinda hurts.