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For sure, but it depends what he is crying over and where he is crying and who he is crying in front of. My 18yo cat got attacked by a coyote and was dying on my back porch. I had to put it down myself in the moment. Didn't cry. Didn't cry when I told my wife and kids that the cat died. Cried softly in the shower by myself that night. Killed a coyote the next week, no clue if it was the same one but I like to think it was. I think that was the only time I've truly cried since I was a kid; that cat was my buddy.
My 6yo kid is super pumped about singing in a choir. Go to see his concert. He's positively beaming. Had to fight back tears of pride. Did not cry in the audience but definitely got choked up.

If I had cried in front of my wife and kids in either of those situations, I would find it to be unacceptable, but sometimes pride or grief will cause an emotional reaction. It's just important to be able to control that and release it at an appropriate time (read: alone).wtynt

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started adding interval cardio to my workouts and it seems to be helping me sleep without the mask. not sure if it helps with snoring but wife keeps saying i move too much so we're in separate beds for now anyway.
everything seems to be going fine with the pregnancy so far.
Got my testosterone results back - everything is in range (free, available, total, all that) but i want to dig deeper into the numbers. the cool thing is that i wasn't even at the optimal timing for the test but i want to see what i can do to improve and do it again in a few months. Either way, not bad for nearly 40.
had a few calls with recruiters and a consulting agency last week for a one off call. not holding my breath on any of them coming through but the enjeetification of my company is making me want to push the move sooner than later. a lateral move into another industry is probably more beneficial in the long run than ending up unemployed again in six months. either way, mostly on track to get this other certification by the end of the month. might also be doing sales for a product my college buddy is putting together.