I'm trying to figure out how to manage my bisexuality, I guess, and I don't know who else to ask. Pretty much my whole life I've been straight, and dated and like women. I had some curiosity about guys after being hit on a few times, and a few years back I bottomed for another guy on a solo vacation.
I liked it in the moment, but hated the aftermath. Sore, HIV worries, whatever. I really didn't want to do it again.
Over the past year I've been fantasizing about it again. The problem is, that's a huge fucking decision to bring into my life actually at home, where people could find out and make it a big deal. I'm pretty much never attracted to men in my day-to-day so it's kinda just all about the sex.
I don't know if being horny for something is worth upending my life when I truly do still like women. What should I do?
Advice about sexuality
