>>513545574
No fucking clue. Men don't get a goddamn thing out of marriage anymore. Weddings are VERY apparently just "princess parties" these days.
If she refuses to take the guy' last name, he has all the other duties of marriage (of which women have none, of course, because "emotional labor is ick") AND ALSO has to have every guy give him the "damn im sorry bro" look every time they find out his wife kept her last name.
So basically I dont see it as purely a name issue. The name thing is literally the ONLY thing about a modern marriage to spare a man's dignity, so if she won't do even that it shows that she has absolutely no empathy for you and never, ever bothers to think about things from your perspective. It is what it is.