You guys say lower your standards for physical attraction and go for character. So I did that and the man got mad at me when I told him oh you would look better if you lost weight since you are borderline overweight but I am dating you for your personality anyway.
Are you guys gaslighting us? How is this not emperor's new clothes? I need a man who is intelligent, realistic and honest.Asking someone to date you despite your appearance and then also demanding them to not be honest about it is literally emperor's new clothes