>>513718421
Women aren't looking for love, they are looking for validation.
When a woman's social circle sees she has reeled in a winner, she will feel special, admired and validated. If you show her vulnerability or weakness before you have shown her that you are a winner, she will think you are a bitch boy that won't impress her family and friends, and hence she will not feel validated in giving herself to you.
This is consistent across all cultures and all income ranges everywhere in the world. The definition of "winner" is the only thing that is different, depending on where she is from.