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The official larian discord has a bunch of groups forming and posting times they're free and stuff like that, and they have voice lobbies to play there so you don't have to add strangers to your list or invite them to your servers in case things go south or they're weird or something. But most people are just looking to play so I'm sure problem people are relatively rare.
There's also a text chat mod that I tried and it works in case you want to skip voice.