>>82162905
you're right. we're very focused on negativity here. i wish we could be more of a connected community focused on good things.

>>81706532
mannnnnn, don't listen to >>81706643
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I'm 6'0 and i'm actually a permavirgin, yet all of my friends who are shorter than me (like 2 of them are 5'7, one of them 5'9" have girlfriends. Honest to god I've been unblackpilled by their existences. If you go somewhere that consistently has women and you talk to them in a way they find fun and interesting without demeaning yourself you're probably going to get a girlfriend eventually. My friends aren't even fucking looksmaxxed, none of them worked out when they got girlfriends, ironically i worked out more than all of them and to this day still no gf.
I'm arguably chadlite, or at least would be if I lost like 20 pounds and yet I obtain absolutely nothing on any dating app.
I'm convinced, man.

>>81618665
none of that actually matters for getting a gf.
One of my best friends has a shitty job, no degree, no car, was bordering on alcoholic, less than mediocre physique, and he still managed to attract a girl at a bar. She fuckin', like, got obsessed with him. What matters is that you are fun to be around and that you are confident, and that you enjoy going to bars. A big detail is not expecting to get laid from going there, instead you should be just having fun with the people around you. Of course, for guys like us, perhaps that is easier said than done.