>>82212494
>i have a feeling that wed just be sexualising eachother based off our race and not seeing eachother as people
I completely understand that, but don't worry. There are people like me, people who like white guys but know that the relationship is more than that.
Sure, I might think it's cute that my hypothetical bf was white, but I wouldn't just love him for that... that would be stupid.
I wouldn't make his mere existence a fetish either. It's like if you had black hair and your partner was blonde... you might think it's a cute contrast and poke fun at it, but you know the relationship doesn't revolve around that.