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Thanks, anons—I shouldn’t be so easily put out by shitty comments. I’ll give my general advice, and then use myself as an example.

Basically, everyone has a combination of attributes that are going to be pluses to most all dating partners (e.g., nice huge tits), neutral to most all dating partners (e.g., knowing how to play the trumpet), and negative to most all dating partners (e.g., weird teeth). I think the most powerful strategy is to find someone who DOES like your neutral or “negative” features (e.g.. maybe bad teeth is their kink or they think it’s cute or whatever). You can also flip this: find someone with the positive features you want, who also has some “negatives” that happen to be a total non-issue for you. If you combine both of these strategies, you can wind up with some incredible 10/10 even if you’re imperfect.

In my case, I have a lot of stuff that most people respond positively to (muscles, blond hair, blue eyes, tall, deep voice), but I also come with the drawback (to most) of being very sexually submissive and kinky. [Side note: submissive does not mean bottom. I mean submissive in the BDSM sense.] And for my part, I’m actually not that particular about my partner’s fitness level (unlike most fit guys). So anyone who actually ENJOYS those kinks and dominating me wins every time, easily beating out the fit vanilla girl/guys who ask me out.

Anyway, I know this is an oversimplification and a really robotic way of thinking but it’s always made sense to me. You don’t need to be a 10/10 to everyone, you just need to be a 10/10 to that one person. But people tend to fixate on their broad appeal.

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It’s me—I’m not nearly hot enough to be a fake choice, lmao. I post in /lgbt/ and /fit/ kind of a lot, and I always write like an autist. That’s the seal of authenticity.

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>wearing something under my clothes
Jockstraps and thongs

>hypnosis
I like these guys’ stuff a lot:

https://m.soundcloud.com/melting-hypno/good-boy-conditioning

https://m.soundcloud.com/josh-hypno-2

https://m.soundcloud.com/0dumbjockbruh0

>who did you marry?
Alex, as you probably guessed lol

>wrestling before sex?
Yes, but it’s different. I’m going to sound like a broken record, but it’s more like I’m a dog playing—I’m not necessarily trying to “win” and if he actually started resisting and asserting his authority I’d just relent immediately. So I’ll pounce and push him a down bit if he’s letting me, wrap my arms around him tight or push his head into my chest, maybe squeeze my thighs around him.

>give you a walk naked
I think naked would be too intense for me, but I would find it very very very hot to be walked around in a collar and jockstrap, especially at like pride or a gay bar. My owner isn’t really into exhibitionism, though. I think for him maybe it feels like he has less of a claim over me—everyone is freely looking and taking me in. But for me it’s sort of the opposite. I think of it like I’m his prize bull he’s showing off at the county fair. I’m his trophy property. I can already see it in guys’ eyes sometimes when he and I go out now…like I’m helping to further raise his status, which makes me feel like I’m being so good.

It’s only happened a few times, but this sequence of events is sooo hot to me: a guy hits on me or asks if we’re open, my owner asserts his exclusivity, but then…says the guy can touch my pecs/arms if he wants. Doesn’t ask me, just offers me up. And then I smile and flex and the guy feels and I can tell he wants more so bad…and everyone sees my owner for the chad thundercock alpha he is…fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

Am I hot enough to be a little cringe

Today was leg day but I think my arms still look okay—happy Friday, my dudes