>>64118376
Im gonna need a source on that bold claim buddy

>1st child
>Gains a bunch of weight
>Loses most of it withinh a year
>Gets pregnant again
>Gives birth
>Is still fat 2 years after but is constantly "trying to lose weight"

What do i do? What do i say? How do i say it. Anyone whos married for long and has been/is in the same situation care to share advice?
I cant flat out tell her she's fat. She even asked me that directly and i kept saying no but she knew i was lying because i was laughing. Anything to imply she should lose weight will just piss her off. The way she did it before was that we were BOTH on a diet. But if im not she then eats shit because i sometimes do to. Grabs 2 portions of lunch. Eats candy if she has the opportunity.
Shes not obese or massive. She refuses to say her weight but its around 75-80kg. She had 60 when we met and shes 171cm tall.
Im especially reminded of the fact that shes unappealing during the summer when a bunch of tight little whores walk around half naked. The fact that she has excess skin ok her belly from the pregnancies doesnt help. We recently hung out with some friends of her that are slim and when i hugged them to greet them i was reminded of what a skinny girl felt like in my arms.
Fucking help me.