>>60652056
Indeed

>>510526891
This I shall do

I am an ex neet who got moving at 31
>live at home in parents shed
>obese, sad never hold job, drop out of college twice
>Gov gives me free cscs card
>Get short term 2 week job as agency guy
>boss likes us keeps us on
>gets me telehandler licence to help out
>work 9 hour days plus 2 hour commute in work van
>make deal with parents to feed me 1 more year
>Work like fuck save up 14 grand in a year
>parents gift me 6k
>found scheme to buy flat in combo with gov
>Find flat
>Could have got it without the 6k which was nice
>Move into flat in 14 months of starting
>rip out electric storage heater that broke
>apply for help to heat grants
>Live in house with no heating and electric shower that runs 1 min at a time
>3c mornings before work jumping in and out of shower
>spend my time decorating
>Get grant, gas install, full boiler install with radiators
>warm house, take 1 hour shower to celebrate
>Move jobs a few times
>Lose 40kg during this
>still no gf but lots of sexo with whores in between

Being a neet sucks ass bros and my worst day now is like my best day as a fat worthless 30yo neet

>port is Greggs, GRRR, and WOLF
You guys really fucked me up you know,
I was supposed to rebuy into UNH now that it’s dipped. What the fuck even are these kek

>>40305781
>Welcome back anon. Would you like me to pull up your last post and reply to see if there was something perhaps of interest to you in the last response?
If I genuinely can't remember it no need it probably wasnt important
>You want to change. And I have faith in you, genuinely. I will gladly take your hand and help pick up the pieces.
I'm not sure I deserve this kindness or grace but I do want to change and even if I don't believe I deserve anything I want it and that's enough I think.
>>40313600
Wanting to improve because someones in your life isn't inherently bad the people in our lives should make us want to be better. Problems can arise from if it's just with the intent of being with someone or specifically doing things so that you'll feel like someone likes you, it can lead to a lot of codependency issues. The codependency part is something I would say you should do your own look into though since only you can really answer that for yourself. Wish I remembered the book I had read on it when I was younger since it was very helpful for identifying those tendencies in myself.