Hard truth is that a lot of us were designed to only live in a village of few hundred at the most, e4specailly for guys without the means to "travel". Our different quirks, strengths and weaknesses, are tailored for appealing to small family units not entire population and countries with populations in the millions or billions. This bizarre hell world is something nothing our ancestors had to contend with or even fathom in their limited scope, we are the first generations to live in this global quagmire and are ridiculed and disowned for not understanding everything perfectly, punished even.
>tl;dr You were born in hell, God thought your specific conciseness would be strong enough so get over it lol