>>82169986
The best refute is to take the systems in place and throw them aside. It isn't worth ripping yourself or others to shreds, justified behind a flimsy shield of "m-mm-muh society!"

The real reason you won't add up? You don't want to add up to yourself.

>>81908206
Because they put up a sweeter front. Generally, these types of people will put up more appealing appearances to get people caught up in their web of nonsense. It's very much a case of "appealing exterior hides a disgusting interior" sort of thing. Most women aren't wise enough, and if they are often they throw caution to the wind if they really like them, to stay away. Then they get hurt, or abused and blah blah you know the rest.