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Some people like depraved sex with strangers or specifically with men or women in marriages/relationships because the non commital aspect makes it feel dirtier in the moment when it matters, but there's still gotta be baseline attraction to some degree
Certain features are turn on for people can be eyes, teeth, arms, some people even like weird shit like ears and hands or feet
Body odor matters
Chemistry is the unspoken rizz factor, saying the wrong thing or using a cringe ass tone to say something you've heard in porn during a sexual encounter can ruin the whole experience for some people too
It's emotional/mental in that aspect because of chemistry, either being there or not not necessarily being wholly emotionally invested on an (I want to spend my whole life dedicated to you, and need you to consume my soul) type of way