>>718361702
My autistic buddy and I liked both quietly the same girl from the gym. About a month and a half ago I started hearing her complain that he was wanting to hang out and talk way too often and it was stressing her out. Weird but ok, tell her to not be afraid to tell him to leave her alone. More time passes and she looks very stressed. She tells me he confessed to her at some point, she said no, and he said he will "Never move on" and will "wait for her to be ready". He's been buying her gifts and getting weirdly possessive of her, he was being distant from our original friend group. I tell her I'll talk to him, but she doesn't want me to. Next week just me and her hang out for her birthday. He is livid she didn't spend her birthday with him, they have a fight, he starts saying shit about how he was "seeing hallucinations of her at night" and shit like that. She's naturally very scared about this and doesn't know what to do. Strangely, HE blocks her shortly after I find out about this. It's been about 2 weeks since he cut her off with no explanation and he's seemingly gone back to normal to me and our friend group and he hasn't contacted her at all. She's still pretty shaken about the whole situation, but it seems like the it's all over and he's moved on. I don't think I should keep trying to advance my relationship with her right now, I should probably give it some time so she has a chance to breathe, I'm sure another guy asking her out is the last thing she wants to hear right this minute. I haven't confronted him about this yet, and maybe it's best for everyone involved to pretend this never happened, but I'll never look at him the same way again.
This all happened over the course of like 2-3 fucking months, btw.