I had many sexual encounters and the men hated me as a person and blocked me afterwards. I dont even remember them at this point since I have no reason to retain their info since they obviously didn't want me in their life. If I reached out they would call me a crazy stalker and ruin my reputation all because I got attached after one sexual encounter.
I'm also chickn, so that's that.
Basically it takes two to tango. Dont have sexual encounters if you arent prepared for the emotions on both sides