Seems I caught up. Welp, time to rest.
>>40437997
Complete shot in the dark but has there been a lot of overtime, needless stress and corporate red tape in your past job? Cause, from what I have seen and heard, a lot of programming jobs are just predatory as hell.
>>40438910
Is it okay to prod you about your circumstances?
>>40429934
What kind of freedom do you truly crave? Why?

>>40128385
I have no experience with US(?) suburbia since to my knowledge it doesn't play by the same rules are small towns I am familiar with, where you would look into regional newspapers, visit local hobbyist places if they exist (game stores for /tg/ enthusiasts, libraries, .. you get the idea). Suburbia to my knowledge is just rows upon rows of houses with no sensible infrastructure right (besides larger chains reachable by car)?
>There's a large city nearby but I just don't know where I would go to meet people really.
Well it depends on your interests. If you want something LGBT, check if local universities have lgbt communities, unis tend to be teeming with activism and just meeting up with someone from there could get you insider info. More hobby focused things would require more info, but the above might give you a general idea.