One third of guys have a pretty normal life and have a girlfriend they met along the way, not doing anything in particular. Important: since this is the expected course of events in ones life that your human instincts will prime you for, this is the dream of every man, and so society tends to pathologize our lack of girlfriends. These upper tier guys are not on the internet whining about this and do not give a shit about this problem because...they have girlfriends and wives and families to attend to.

The bottom 66% of society divides into upper and lower classes:

The middle third of guys fall into a category of copers who actually had to expend brainpower and elbow grease and do something completely contrived and unnatural in order to camouflage themselves convincingly enough as the aforementioned group of guys who did nothing and good things just happened to them in life. This way, they get a facsimile of what the upper third of guys enjoy, even if it's a temu dollar store made-in-bangladesh version of it. Think alpha red pill gurus with their asian or european girlfriend, or think of millennial redditors with fat chopped sides of beef they call girlfriends (picrel). They are sympathetic to the loneliness issue because they experienced it.
Also, there are middle tier guys who appear in the upper tier, until their girlfriends cheat, their wives divorce them or some misfortune befalls them and then they wind up back in the middle. Now suddenly they are categorically shifted into the average center.

The lower third of guys is characterized by the fact that they simply do not have the fortune, potential, or sometimes the even the desire to imitate the so-called strategies of the middle third and no amount of brainstorming or pulling on their bootstraps is going to get them into the middle tier. If you're in a below average headspace, you tend to lead a below average life. Morale is low.

And that's that! Case closed