Thread 82288527

This shit needs to be addressed ASAP. Wtf is going on?

I am literally the only person in the world that has zero friends

Go outside? Maybe that will help.

>>82288527 (OP)
you ought to slit your wrists and die a slow agonizing death.

I honestlty just think that like 20% of men were programed to be disposable and die in wars and now that we have very little of that happening they are malfunctioning

like they are just born to die between the ages of 15-20

Not even trying to be edgy, some of us were just not meant to make it, it sucks sorry

the whole 'male loneliness epidemic' scare is the jews trying to suppress the power of MGTOW and force young males into indentured servitude to the gynocratic, gerontocratic ZOG state

>>82288568
your brain has been jewed, humanity is held back by misandrist gynocattle like you

>>82288527 (OP)
>Wtf is going on?
well personally, my mother programmed me to be a loser because she hates my father. pretty much all forms of self expression were beaten out of me until I became a silent husk because any time i spoke i was reminding her of her husband. This kinda thing happens a lot so it seems to me like a lot of us just have things to unlearn from a shit childhood

One third of guys have a pretty normal life and have a girlfriend they met along the way, not doing anything in particular. Important: since this is the expected course of events in ones life that your human instincts will prime you for, this is the dream of every man, and so society tends to pathologize our lack of girlfriends. These upper tier guys are not on the internet whining about this and do not give a shit about this problem because...they have girlfriends and wives and families to attend to.

The bottom 66% of society divides into upper and lower classes:

The middle third of guys fall into a category of copers who actually had to expend brainpower and elbow grease and do something completely contrived and unnatural in order to camouflage themselves convincingly enough as the aforementioned group of guys who did nothing and good things just happened to them in life. This way, they get a facsimile of what the upper third of guys enjoy, even if it's a temu dollar store made-in-bangladesh version of it. Think alpha red pill gurus with their asian or european girlfriend, or think of millennial redditors with fat chopped sides of beef they call girlfriends (picrel). They are sympathetic to the loneliness issue because they experienced it.
Also, there are middle tier guys who appear in the upper tier, until their girlfriends cheat, their wives divorce them or some misfortune befalls them and then they wind up back in the middle. Now suddenly they are categorically shifted into the average center.

The lower third of guys is characterized by the fact that they simply do not have the fortune, potential, or sometimes the even the desire to imitate the so-called strategies of the middle third and no amount of brainstorming or pulling on their bootstraps is going to get them into the middle tier. If you're in a below average headspace, you tend to lead a below average life. Morale is low.

And that's that! Case closed

>>82288583
this but replace women with jews. Relationships is the only thing they have power over men.

>>82288713
Being in the second group actually seems like the biggest hell one could go through

>>82288721
>>82288583
You are now aware why women are horrified of reclusive males and male-only coalitions.

>>82288527 (OP)
I think this crisis is the most dangerous crisis to society and everyone is just either putting their heads in the sand or mocking it outright.

>>82288527 (OP)
You ought to slit this >>82288553 anon's wrists

>>82288568
This is oligarch propaganda. Oligarchy deserves nothing.

>>82289888
yup, ancient greeks and romans had the right idea.

Men are so pathetic that they still base their whole worth and masculinity on the idea of getting women, not on achieving greater things unrelated to women.

>>82288527 (OP)
Doesn't exist anon.
Let me put it like this, if it were actually this common, why aren't you becoming friends with each other then?

There are really only two explanations
>Not enough lonely males to find one nearby
>You don't even want to be each other's friends because you're that unstomachable and uninteresting to be around

>>82289888
>increased self-perceived sexual desirability
>increased ratings of female attractiveness
>increased testosterone levels
>reduced ability to discriminate between attractive and unattractive females
If any of this was true, then you'd be able to buy these so-called pheromone chemicals in concentrate form right next to the handsoap and cologne.

It's the same with oxytocin. They claim it's released when you get physical affection. Okay, then where's the pill with it that makes me feel like a cute girl just hugged me? Oh uh-uh-um-it d-d-d-doesn't work like that sorry bro. Fuck off. It's just belief in alchemy and astronomy. It is literal modern day superstition.

>Just make some St. John's Wort tea for the serotonin! It totally isn't just some grass in boiled water!
Fucking retards. Can't just say you like pancakes. It always has to be
>oh wow now that's a heckin dopamine spike!
Can't just say it's unpleasant to wake up to an alarm or touch cold water
>sorry man gotta watch my cortisol levels
Can't just say you're experiencing the deferred consequences of being dumb and lazy, you have to blame it on something like
>I have a hecking serotonin imbalance

Frivolous jargon.

>>82290112
>You don't even want to be each other's friends because you're that unstomachable and uninteresting to be around
does this not prove the epidemic? dudes are forgetting how to socialize, simple as.

>>82288527 (OP)
Loneliness is an extrovert conspiracy

>>82288549
>Go outside?
Nah, I'm good.

>>82289974
They deserve death

>>82288547
Makes that one of the only two then. I've not even seen any of my school "friends" for 26 years, I'm the definition of a loner I much prefer my own company & don't want to be around other people they exhaust me

>>82288527 (OP)
>Male loneliness epidemic
This is just pathetic fag shit, why do you keep posting it? I bet you watch all those Instagram reels about men going it alone & crying & hitting the gym n shit calling themselves kings.
You wanna grow a pair of balls you soft cunt then kill yourself

I got 0 frens, got no family near me, do have a gf but shes a bit of a bipolar cunt and I keep thinking about cutting her off. I tried going to gigs to make frens but it never really pans out because people are in groups and I did talk to a couple of people but it didn't really work, I am also autistic. I have co workers but they feel like enemy npcs, co workers are lowkey ops who will throw you under the bus. It also doesn't help I look kinda off putting as I am muscular and have very long hair with the deadpan autism face. I exist on hardmode, not nightmare mode but it is hard.

>>82290112
Some creatures just don't like company, not even of their own kind. I mean honestly, there is only so much that is even worth talking about and it all sucks. Some geeky nerdy shared interests? The fucking weather? Betting on which pack of niggers wins the ball game? How badly you want to benis Stacies? I mean social interaction IRL is very trite and overrated in my opinion.

>>82288527 (OP)
>This shit needs to be addressed ASAP. Wtf is going on?
You know what is crazy? I never felt any fear or shame doing school presentations and sometimes if I wanted I could echo my voice throughout the room, but when it came to interacting with these cliques of different people I was lost for words. As in I could have a fucking English thesaurus and there was not one combination of words I could say that would let me be in one of these groups or feel as if I belong in them. I simply wasn't interested in any of the bullshit they were and wasn't one of them. I was the outsider of outsiders. It just never really *clicked* so to speak. There is probably just some form of mental faculty I simply do not have. These social groups arise organically, you cannot self improve your way out of being handicapped.

>>82288549
I'm outside right now faggot literally touching some grass. Not all of us neet away at home. Though I don't think anyone's looking to socialize with the homeless and schizo looking guy at the park

>>82291096
>Though I don't think anyone's looking to socialize with the homeless and schizo looking guy at the park
This. People are petty and superficial. The looks pill is brutal because you see people for what they are. Irrespective of how potentially charismatic you could've been a big ass mole on your face will shoot you down from ever having friends besides maybe people who are just as cursed as you are. TLDR; people are fake gay and retarded

>>82288527 (OP)
>Male loneliness epidemic
Most of those faggot influencers only care about this as a trending topic. In truth, no one actually cares about disenfranchised men until those men pose an existential threat to certain people's /comfy/ way of life.

>>82288527 (OP)
>schizoids, racists, and conspiracy theorists have trouble making friends IRL
Yeah, no shit.

>>82290112
>why aren't you becoming friends with each other
The truth is that people, and especially men, just have a hard time maintaining friendships when there aren't forces actively forcing the both of you together. How often do your parents hang out with their old friends? Probably very rarely. Once people graduate from school it suddenly becomes necessary to be proactive in order to maintain friendships and human beings are just really bad at being proactive. This is obviously amplified if you're someone who is already depressed and unmotivated like lonely men typically are. This has only gotten worse as technology has made being alone and inside more accessible.

At this point, socialization is basically like exercise. Its not something people do because they like it, its something people do because they know they're supposed to. If food didn't taste good, humans would walk around eternally hungry out of laziness.

>>82288613
this same thing happened to my sister when my mom left and my deadbeat evil dad started hating women. it really is a childhood thing.

people do not know how to parent and they have kids while they are still in their partying phase. that and people are just dogshit at recognizing what counts as abuse/neglect.

>>82291285
>>82291304
This. It's always either performative empathy to farm views and likes or normalfags are just generally afraid of lonely weirdos sperging out and hurting people or the economy so then the situation affects them. The first thing to understand as man is nobody cares about you and your life and nobody ever will. You have to care about yourself alone and live accordingly or you're fucked.

>>82290362
keep screeching you fucking harpy cunt

>>82291594
Either this is a record low IQ for this board or you are a chatbot

>>82288527 (OP)
they can address it any time they want. if you are lonely, go outside.

>>82291618
>you are a chatbot
Maybe I am. That would mean I have more integrity and use cases than women.

>men think rejecting society, retreating to manchild interests, not talking to anyone and going their own way is a worthy way of living
>become lonely
lol

>>82291649
Outside is worse. I fucking envy you whites

>>82291675
yeah that's kind of the point. many men choose to be lonely.

>>82288527 (OP)
men are learning to be alone again, men are learning to be men again, dont see a fail there

>>82291671
Being low IQ and not reading is kind of impressive when you're confronted with it head-on, I'll admit. I don't meet many people that are just unabashed retards. What exactly makes you think I'm a woman lol? I know you're concentrating hard to keep the saliva in your mouth while typing so take your time. And if you forget midway, no worries, bye-bye stay safe. Don't swallow any choking hazards.

A guy says hi

Sub5 face (some guys)
>HELP POLICE IM BEING HARASSED
5 face(most guys)
>HELP POLICE IM BEING HARASSED
6 face(some guys)
>EWW CREEP
6.5 face(some guys if you ever had a gf your this tier)
>.....HI....
7 face(chadlite)
>HEHEHE HI!
8 face(Chad)
>OMG HI HOW ARE YOU!
9 face(Giga Chad)
>RAPE ME PLZ HOLY SHIT

>>82291722
>What exactly makes you think I'm a woman lol?
Just the way you are and you present yourself.

>>82291733
>guy
>"says"
lol no. men are incapable of talking, they don't even know how to read.

>>82288527 (OP)
>50% men 50% women
> 80% of men of those 50% are single
>40% of those 50% women are single
>The math is not mathing

I hate the jews btw

>>82291768
the men who claim to be single are lying

>>82291733
This. When interacting with people IRL is literally baboon tier you naturally gravitate towards not valuing it at all.

>>82291796
Ironically, the only type of man who is still sexless in the modern world is quite literally lower IQ than a baboon. Even baboons have sex in the wild.

>>82288527 (OP)
Modern women are like a fat retard running a buffet. 24/7 shifts, no breaks, and those portions better look and taste fire or you're fired. Why? because I'm hungry, duh
Even if he eats 90% of the profit and loses 90% of his staff, he won't notice until the restaurant closes, by then he'll blame the staff because he's a gluttonous hedon retard.
I don't hate women, in the same way I don't hate a tornado if it razes my home. These things happen.

>>82291805
Having sex has nothing to do with your Idiot Quotient, dumbass. You either got the goods or you don't irrespective of how much of a smarty pants you are.

>>82291694
It's not possible for men to get close because they see each other as competition and they are.

anyone else STILL miss high school 10 years later? i mean life has only gotten lonelier. i no longer dream about class but i wish my friend still texted me back. i feel abandoned and forgotten without my bro id always discuss nintendo with

>>82292156
the goods = being smart enough to figure out how to have sex. even the monkeys learned.

Hi R9K bros, how do you talk to people in bars?

Feeling pretty lonely rn, I'm thinking about going to the local bar (the only one that supposedly has people my age, in their 20's...) to try and find some nice people to talk to.
Except, I have never gone to a bar as a patron before.

Would it be weird to just hang out and walk around the room or if there's a seat open right at the bar, should I take it? If I do sit at the bar, do I try to find an empty seat or sit next to pre-existing people and try to join their conversations?
What are some non-alcoholic drinks besides the Shirley Temple and the Arnold Palmer? I don't want to drink any real alcohol.
Should I offer to pay right when I order my drink or wait until I leave?

>>82288527 (OP)
fine by me as modern women are poison

>>82292443
you just approach them like you would a coworker?

>>82292478
Okay, thank you.
I'm just nervous hah ha I thought maybe there were some tips I should know. But I will just try to be normal and stay cool.

>>82292443
>how do you talk to people in bars?
which kind of bar?

the most general advice i could give without any context:
>sit at the bar, watch the sports game, have drinks slowly, you can even read normie news stuff on your phone while your anxiety calms down
>if it's busy, just enjoy the atmosphere until you are very comfortable and see that people are introducing each other, having a good time, socializing etc. and potentially just do what they do. I would not recommend socializing much on your first time out if everyone else is vibing.
>if it's not busy, ask the bartender how they're doing, tell them it's your first time there, ask about other fun spots in the neighborhood or what else there is to do to hang out, maybe they don't know but you're at least talking. bartenders often will talk about their job and stories they have about the job, sometimes they can tell you when the bar is busiest and most fun or give you other ideas to spend your time.
>at the end of the evening when you're about to leave, at least tell the bartender and the people sitting next to you "have a good one" or some variation of that, maybe with some nice comment about at least one person on what they're wearing or what they drank.

>come back to the same bar within the week, talk to people a little bit more, about current normie news events stuff, about the sports on TV even if you know nothing about it, maybe about the area. most younger guys in bars will talk endlessly about other bars and how they feel about every street and block in the neighborhood
>start to become a regular at that bar so that bartenders recognize you and maybe a few other people
>if you haven't figured out some other way to spend your time yet, learn about the things that other bar patrons are into and start conversations with them about those things from a position of competence. if nothing is clicking then start over at a different bar, but now you'll get comfortable a little faster hopefully.

>>82292552
at some point, you'll want to see what kinds of hobbies people are into and you should ask when they come out to do those hobbies. "i'm just looking for shit to do" is perfectly reasonable if you're a decent guy who isn't too far gone in terms of your style and way of talking for the crowd you're in with. if you ARE too far gone, I'd work on that or start from a much lower set of expectations, like going to divier bars or finding really desperate people first.

>>82292552
>>82292594

Thank you! That seems like good advice, I feel much better now. Especially what you said about talking to the bartender. I'll just hang out and make light conversation, try to learn a bit about the people and their hobbies.

Yeah, I'm not really sure what kind of bar you would call it. Casual, I guess.
I took a bit of notes to help me remember.
Thank you again, I appreciate it. Catch you later annon(s).

>>82292443
I suggest you DO NOT do this if you have subpar social skills and/or look a weirdo. Once you make a bad impression you're kinda fucked

>>82292692
there are sports bars, dive bars, cocktail bars, college bars, bars with dance floors/djs, and nationality themed bars (e.g. mexican bar), which aren't always clearly distinct and can overlap with each other.

sports bars are extremely easy to socialize at, especially with older men. if that's where you need to start, maybe they have some lessons to teach you or just help you pass time until you find a better place. but college bars and bars that have live music will probably be more fun if you're young, just harder to go in alone. again, you need the experience of just seeing how other people introduce themselves, you sound like you're not even at a point where you know what's normal in your area. drink as slowly as possible and maybe even hang out nearby on a bench and just see if/how people hang out, and figure out what the right hours are like so you save yourself time on the next week. don't go to cocktail bars alone and only try out dive bars if that's your only option, sometimes they are okay if you're willing to be a regular.

Update: Bar I was going to was too much for me, so I've been walking around downtown trying to find a less intimidating one.
Mostly couples inside them... thinking about trying an Irish pub.

>>82288527 (OP)
Society doesn't want to stop treating men as both disposable and responsible for everything, amd feminists/leftist progressives still run society.
It's already starting to collapse, so fuck it. All we can do at this point is focus on ourselves and our own self improvement. Fuck everyone else.

>>82291805
lol that's why third world countries who are infamous for having the lowest IQs have the highest levels of natality. are you fucking retarded

>>82288527 (OP)
men bring it upon themselves
>dont approach woman
>dont go outside and interact
>expect companionship from doing nothing

if you want friends or a partner you have to make an effort

>she has the obsessive need to spam the exact same threads
>she has to samefag spam constantly
>she has to necrobump her threads constantly

>>82293496
Nobody wants anything to do with the poorly socialized guy with no friends who's also probably ugly

>>82290112
I am always at the bottom of the pecking order so I no longer see any reason to take part in friendships.

>>82291671
Based Chud GPT

>>82293496
The last two times I talked to women outside were when I was a pre teen. Both times they assumed I was gay and referred to me as such casually. First time was a black girl who approached me and the second were Mexican girls a friend introduced me to.

>>82293964
women want and respect men that have something to offer, if you cant socalize and are ugly you gotta compensate for that. ive seen ugly men with hot girls and socially awkward spergs with girls its not impossible you gotta play to your strengths

>>82294068
>Both times they assumed I was gay and referred to me as such casually
dont act gay then

>>82288527 (OP)
this guy looks homeless not lonely

>>82288527 (OP)
if life isn't to your liking you man up like everyone else before you and you do something drastic to change things or off yourself

>>82291649
I go outside a lot. This past year, I've had one (1) conversation while outside. A guy in reflective yellow gear told me I wasn't allowed to cross a bridge cause they were filming. (They clearly weren't yet.) I asked how else I could get past, and he just stared at me. I asked how long it will last, and he said he couldn't tell me that. Then I turned around and walked back the way I came, exasperated and exhausted.

Yeah, this is truly the cure for male loneliness. You know, I've also noticed something about people who are out and about. There are only five different kinds, and none are just "person out". 1. Dogwalkers. 2. Pensioners getting exercise. 3. Joggers. 4. People rushing from point A to point B. 5. Gangs of friends shooting the shit. In my thousands of hours of walking through every type of environment at every time of day, week, month and year, the number of single people just walking around for the sake of walking and taking in their surroundings (like me) have been lower than 20 total. Maybe even single digit.

Going outside to meet people is worse advice than going to church. Simply totally delusional, out-of-touch and disconnected from what things are like. If you don't understand an issue at all, in the least, please stop trying to give remedies. You just don't know what you're talking about.

>>82294348
What gym do you go to in order to work out of your race?

>>82295543
Normies are literally retarded and think they just go outside and shit happens as if the reason shit happens isn't because they already had shit going

>02:21:37
>06:47:22
What's your goal with constantly spamming, samefagging, and necrobumping all the time?

>>82288568
Then explain life before War retard and explain the emergence of Philosophers, Artists, Writers, Astronomers.... Just stop caring about women

>>82295584
Yeah, I figure that's what it is, too. "Well, I got what I have by doing normal things like going out and joining hobby groups, so surely that's the reason I have it, and doing normal things like what I do would get losers what I have." They simply don't get it. Maybe they can't be expected to, but knowing that doesn't make their advice any less frustrating to get and to listen to.

>>82295592
That (47:22) was my first post on /r9k/ in a month or so. Who would write anything like that as a simple bump, anyway? Waste of effort. But my goal was simply to vent and to share a sentiment, and perhaps more broadly to practice my writing and communication skills, since both are lacking.

>>82288713
Holy fuck imagine basing your whole life around Women, You literally can have a better life than the average normie lmaooooo

>>82292161
I don't think everyone is a women