>dated a girl bout three years ago
>within five months she was asking if I was ready to move in together the following year
>was hesitant and she broke up with me (was working a shitty low paid job at the time)
>still close and dated again
>by the end of the year wanted to know if I'd be ready to get married the following year and for us to buy a house together
>said I couldn't promise that and we broke up (my bad, sure)
>reached out wishing her well a month or so later (I told her when we met that I would be her friend even if things didn't work out)
>we stayed on friendly terms, saw each other once in a while, was clear there were still something there but I didn't want to string her along since she kept going on about wanting to get married
>she asked for advice about things sometimes, helped her with certain things, gave her rides occasionally since she has no car (she was in a tricky place so don't regret that)
>basically ended up on friendly terms with a bit of romantic/sexual tension
>two months ago asked me to give her a ride to the airport an hour or so away very early in the morning and pick her up the following day late evening
>assumed she was visiting a female friend in that place (she mentioned a girl she knew living there or thereabouts)
>this week asked me to do the same (didn't offer to pay gas either time)
>on the way there asked about it and she said she was visiting her new boyfriend
>told her that it wasn't on and said she should find a new ride back
>she said I wasn't being a good friend like I said I would be
>didn't apologise or anything and we parted in silence
Am I wrong to think that isn't a fair thing to ask of a friend who is also an ex (and who only isn't still with you because of being hesitant to marry)? I feel like she was rubbing my nose in it.