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>this is going to be a bunch of long posts
This is what this general is more than suited for. There is no need to apologize. If everyone could condense all their circumstances into 2k characters and would only need a 2kchar answer there would be no discussion after all. Life is more complicated than that, for better *and* worse. I'll respond to you piecemeal and not quite in the order you wrote things.
>Not sure how much of this could be a "me-issue".
I think you already analyzed that part perfectly and the only conclusion is that it is just a matter of incompatibility. Things slipping through the cracks is normal with ADHD, and medication and all sorts of tips and tricks help mitigate it, but some accommodation still goes a long way, and if it is not in their repertoire to give it that is not something that's a matter of fault or something that can really be fixed realistically given what you told me.
To preempt something I feel needs saying.. You will eventually move out given the current trajectory and I believe that will be for the best. It is very kind of you to mediate for them, and you are dealing maturely and sensibly with the hand you are dealt. But as you are in a transitional period of your life so I think in everything we discuss about how to deal with your current situation it is important to account for you essentially having to move sooner rather than later once you are a little more settled income wise, IF it is at all an option. So I won't address things like your parents accidentally sabotaging you too much because for now I will assume the time is better spent trying to change your whereabouts than them. It is clear you are already working on that too, given ..
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