>>40916388
I'm always happy to hear from you, shinjinon.. goodness, what a mess. I don't remember what you expected from that appointment, it has been ages since we first talked about it. How do you feel?
>>40916571
It's like with looking down while climbing a ladder.. it is so easy to get overwhelmed if you look at the whole thing. It's hard for me, too. What is the next rung to reach for in your case? The next individual step?
>>40918126
>I'll start tomorrow, I'll clench my teeth and do them tomorrow or help me god I'm not a woman.
Goodie! I would like you to report back to me either way tomorrow, alright?
>>40919814
>the thread's heart
you're too sweet. I keep pumping but you all are the lifeblood.
>>40921327
As stated in the OP, there is worth in broad, generic advice. I don't think it's "fortune cookie" if it has merit, which it does.

Only two or three small updates tonight since I had a busy day
>>40527395
Some days things come crashing down, esp after an exciting event. It sounds like you needed time to sort your thoughts first and foremost. If you wish I can try make sense of things with you.
>>40528596
>>The thread wants to diee
Slow gen is slow right? I wonder if I should make the newcomer pasta (>>40383789) a permanent thing, but I a, not sure about it.
>"huh i look butch as shit in my work clothes" rather than getting dysphoric over it.
Happy to hear, Navy!
>Still stressed about other stuff that I can't talk about
Oh, nondisclosure shit? Confidential? Goodness.. when will it be over at least?
>Planning on outing myself fairly soon because of
>don't want transition getting in the way of my career.
I am tempted to say ripping off the band-aid early will be something you would only regret in the short term, if ever.
>>40529284
Your bump is most appreciated, and I am glad you are persevering in the face of mind fuckery. It's not easy, and you are right, sleep hygiene is such an insidious thing to mess with you.
>>40529939
Pardon the late reply!
They often move it to /adv/ where (to my knowledge) it immediately dies. Yeah..
>as a cis man
As the OP (who has been the same for over 3 years now), I personally and EXPLICITLY welcome you to. You see, a lot of people, especially questioning peeps who aren't sure if they are trans or gay or whatever will think they aren't lgbt enough to be welcome. Only by categorically saying "yeah even cishets are allowed" can I drag these people back in. I am radically welcoming out of necessity. While this general is too small and slow to accommodate all of /fit/sig, there is a genuine mutual benefit of having some of you here.