>>82143792
>How do you compare to your siblings?
Oldest brother.
Middle bro got out of rehab
(for weed of all things) and works in IT;
lives with roomates.
Youngest lives at home, does odd jobs saving for driving licence and trips around the world (already visited a few countries) and has young gf.
Since I left the military (3 years of service and proud I survived it; my brothers dodged mandatory service, each in his own way) I am a neet (no exactly, I study cybersec online and got some certifications but can't see myself becoming an office drone), schizo, on disability, have my own place and a neet gf. Spend days reading/doing drugs (responsibly)/studying/visiting gf.
>Anyone else the family screw up?
In my first few years of neetdom I felt like a failure as I lived at home while brothers left and had jobs and gfs at the time. But as time went on and I got my diagnosis and disability, life got much better. I see it as us three took different paths in life but I wouldn't call myself a screw up, even though I can bearly go outside without losing my shit or in contact with any of my family/old friends.
Or maybe I am a screw up with no future but my preasent life could be (and was) worse. Idk.