>>719673732
3 has the best plot and 4 is the best if you just want comfy slice of life stuff. 3 is just evangelion and 4 is just scooby doo / Jojo part 4. I like 3 and 4 for different reasons, 5 is just shit though and you should avoid it. It has hot older girls as side social links but you can just look at porn and get a better experience.
If you play 3, play FES and avoid the remake.
If you play 4, you should probably just go with the original. Golden is a downgrade visually since it was a ps2 game ported to a handheld and just because Golden has new content it doesn't mean its good content. The new true ending sucks and it adds in a new character thats shoe horned in and shes really annoying.
For girls, just look at the games wiki or whatever to see which girls you think are cute, but the dating sim shit likes like 10 minutes max worth of dialog in a 80 hour long jrpg.