>>725265750
its slightly more male prefered not female

>>721186249
Not him, but I always reckoned it was common based on it being very common trope for female porn/erotica writers, and being something many girls I've been with have consented to, often even with a degree of apparent enthusiasm.

But if you want stats then the best ones probably are gathered by Aella (the survey-respondents likely lean to Silicon Valley types, but sample size is n=39k). It's right there at 22% popularity and 28% tabooness, with about 50-50 gender ratio.

>>33321117
>>33321117
funnily enough I can't find a good source for a more serious survey.
But it's definitely a lot. It's in all the songs now on the top 40 charts and guys like talking about it.
Here (not really scientific but close enough) it's coming in right at the top with like, "spanking" and "being submissive"

But if you want to really own the guy, just surprise him with it and tell him that never happened before with other guys, and you're so embarrassed, he's the first guy, and you just couldn't.. yeah, you know.

>>280004994
This one?