God Mode:
>Activated

Only shit you lost to

Funny stuff only

Where am I supposed to draw the line in my life between reasonable and unreasonable expectations of sex in marriage? I admit it, I watch porn more than I should but idk if that's all my own fault or if she's not really meeting my "needs"; I like 2-3 times a week, I like her wearing thongs/g strings, I like different positions, oral, anal etc but nothing rough, no weird role-playing, no porn during sex etc but she kinda makes me feel bad for wanting anything other than piv missionary. She's still down for 2-3 times a week, but isn't particularly kinky. Im not ready to blame all this on her, maybe im just a dumb gooner, but I mean I've always been into the hot stuff and probably will all my life

Is this the type of thing I can even negotiate or no? Is sex, even in marriage, still a "take what you can get" type thing? Or is it reasonable to be like "hey, this is what im into, we're gonna be together our entire lives so you might as well get used to more kinky stuff, we need to satisfy each other"?

Or should I just accept that I'll never truly have that stuff and be happy with my piv missionary the rest of our lives?