>>82838347
>ok, here's an example of something that can and does happen
That's a reasonable scenario. I don't think you're in the wrong there at all and I would feel the exact same way in your position. But I just don't think it happens that often. Most people aren't coke addicts or have some massive red flags like that. In my experience, the people you guys are rejecting and shitting on are socially awkward guys. I wouldn't even mind extrovert social butterflies doing it, but when it's fellow autists twisting that dagger even deeper, it just hurts. And considering that I'm that socially awkward guy constantly being rejected, I feel like I'm allowed to hate you for it as long as I acknowledge my bias.
>only had that happen once in highschool because i was a dumb kid and chose to be nice to someone who was retarded and didn't know how to take hints nor blatant rejections.
And what was his red flag? Why did you reject him? I think I can guess that no, that kid did not have a coke addiction or something insane. He was just socially awkward. And you guys are literal demons when it comes to socially awkward guys. Nothing else even matters besides that.