im not listening to that "vocaroo" I don't care what you sound like

I love women but I am not clicking that link. im not doing.

*clicks link*

*imagines her smoking*

oh em geeee she used to smoke cigs

any advice on getting my (mtf) boyfriend (cis) to become less vanilla?
like, i want him to be more rough and try more out.
i bought nice lingerie, a collar and other stuff but he seems to stick to vanilla stuff.
i wont push him if hes not into it but i thought you guys might have some ideas.