>>33655637
Thanks anon those are some very meaningful words.
What I believe that we need is more time, maybe we just aren't ready yet. You did mention you're freshly out of a toxic situationship. Give it some time and remember to take that whatever happened to you in the past as an opportunity to learn.
You've told me so much stuff that you had learnt about that you should use it yourself.
Learn to self love and don't base anyone on your happiness, feel happy on your own until you search for someone else to let in.
I believe in you man
>>33655641
We don't function like that.
Some guys see sex as a casual thing, we (at least I assume I can speak for him too) take intimacy as a sacred thing and makes us grow attached. Not the same when you jerk off to someone you don't know obviously.