>>96502597
What you want influences the game you'll want to play.
Don't forget the thousands of people who play higher level games almost simply for the power fantasy.
Personally I don't mind my characters dying in LGS games, but that's because I don't invest much into each at the start, which in itself is something of a red flag I admit.
>>96504991
Everyone's too embarrassed about the idea of being an edgelord, too LGBT, or playing anything with a whiff of Chrome Donut, that it almost never actually happens at a normal table.
The actual players you get are, imo; non-engager's, polfags (5'7 fat manlet insisting on the value of nazi-esque eugenics), unstable insecure women (ime women make either the best players at the table, or the worst), and the topical Human-Male-Fighter faggot.
The last of which, is basically just a modern edgelord, with no self-awareness.
>>96509712
See
>>96500835
You CAN do it. But it's something of a hallmark of character generation skill to do it WELL.
And a lot of midwits have no idea how it's a mark of ability, or how to do it well, so they just make NPC's with Specifically no interesting features, no personality, no motivations, dreams, or beliefs. And will then spend good portions of the game being snide IC and OOC to other pc's/players for having them.