Thread 2790039

>41 single male
>3 weeks leave

Choices:
-China
-New Zealand
-Italy/Greece/Germany

I wouldn't mind meeting a girl but at this age and stage I am probably past it. I did do too well with woman when I stayed in the UK for 2 months (only picked up one girl) so I am thinking that my results may be similar in Europe?

I am interested in Europe because I've never been there, only the UK. New Zealand is cheap with incredible hikes and drives available & China is essentially the center of the world right now...I've always had a dream of going to Chongqing and it's something I must fulfill.


THESE are the only options I've done everywhere else that I am interested in. 6 times Japan etc, Thailand 2-3 times etc etc etc.

I want to have sex, but I also want cultural stuff I don't just want a Pattaya party I want a mix of everything...Terracotta warriors meets 25 year old hottie in my hotel room...

>>2790039 (OP)
Chyna.

>>2790039 (OP)
I traveled to all you destination as mid 30s
>wouldn't mind meeting a girl
so I gonna rate your destinations on how easy it is to meet a women (roughly) YOUR age for short flings (or something longer)

>China
not many foreigners outside the big 4, even fewer solo / group travelers
incredible (& underrated) travel destination, but chances you meet someone are very slim
and chinese women your age will all be married, not speak any English and on top you won't even find our where to meet them

>New Zealand
try to find a travel buddy / group before
most travelers there are couples or friend groups, but low chances of meeting someone on the road outside Auckland / Wellington / Christchurch
some popular camping grounds outside, but again, low probability to find a women traveling alone

>Italy / Greece
if it's summer, go to popular beach destination; some hotels focus more on single travelers, literally what you want
both don't have much young party travelers and all Italian cities will have plenty of "nightlife"
perfect would be Rimini or alike

>Germany
that's the safest options of all - if you go to the right cities
end up in Berlin, Cologne, Hamburg (if you have money) or more classic locations like Sylt and you're almost guaranteed to find someone if you're not autistic

>>2790039 (OP)
China is a shithole

>>2790039 (OP)
What’s the feasibility of fucking Christmas cake women in Japan?

>>2790041
As a girlfriend I'd prefer anyone white though or closer to it, can I solo travel China easily?
>>2790069
And if I do meet someone in China I doubt they'll be speaking to me in English. Chongqing is amazing and has been on my list forever though. You're probably right, it's usually apps or bust for me but as I've ticked over 35 these has basically stopped to a trickle.

New Zealand: Yeah desu there is a fair chance I both drive around alone and hike alone sigh. No one is interested in a single 40 year old man in any capacity, even if I am fit.

What nightlife do you suggest in Europe as a solo traveler I guess? She doesn't have to be young, just young enough to be fertile...

Germany. Really? Why? They speak English lots of travelers? I don't get it.

>>2790093
Highish if white? 20+ in a year when I lived there from ages 19-20. One cute 38 year old last time I was there and a newhalf...It was way better when living there though.

The age old question of how the fuck does a single solo male meet someone.

>>2790039 (OP)
China is your best option to meet your criteria and I suggest you do a pretty standard Beijing-Xi'an-Shanghai trip. I throw Xi'an in there because there are cultural sites, but it's also a college city with a ton of young, hot women.

>>2790135
>Chongqing is amazing
as I said, China is immensely underrated and Chongqing is really cool (though personally I liked nearby Chengdu more)
but don't go there expecting casual hookups

>as I've ticked over 35 these has basically stopped to a trickle.
>No one is interested in a single 40 year old man in any capacity, even if I am fit.
kek
another one who fell for the retarded /robot/ blackpillers
you severely underestimate your market value as /fit/, non-broke 40yo guy
yeah you prob won't get that "18yo virgin"
but irl, on the right destinations, it's really easy to pull 30s women

>What nightlife do you suggest in Europe as a solo traveler I guess?
you want to go to "club like" bars in cities with a big young professional crowd
Milan or Berlin would be great examples
or you go to popular beach destinations where the classic nightlife naturally will be a bit older, but again, the club-style bars work best
if you have a specific city in mind I could give concrete recommendation

>Germany. Really? Why? They speak English lots of travelers? I
english is widely spoke, good nightlife in all bigger cities, open society and single women in your age bracket actual go out
and some cities also have a big traveler crowd year round

>>2790039 (OP)
I suppose you're a mutt?

Europe is not for meeting people. Tourism in Italy and France are industries. You go to museum A, museum B, caslte 1 2 3 4 5, restaurants, then you go back.

I'd say go to China. Your pic is HK (?) so i assume you know the city, you can go to bars in Wan Chai and so on.

>>2790039 (OP)
china has an enormous amount of 'unwanted' age 30-35 year old women that are desperate for any male attention

below that will be hard to pull but not impossible

if you are OK with that age range you will have a great time, they look 25 anyways.

source: recently went to china as a 39 year old fairly average white man, and had things explained to me that 'leftover' women 30+ have resigned themselves to never getting married, since chinese men would never bother starting a family with a 30+ or spending resources on them

>>2790244
>chinese men would never bother starting a family with a 30+ or spending resources on them
as they should.

>>2790089
You literally never been there and it's so obvious

>>2790244
It's funny because most of them are still hot but yeah for Asians it's basically over in their minds. I had a cute 29yo lass in Guilin tell me she'd never be able to get married because she's too old, was fucking hilarious. They're obsessed with youth.
The only real issue with China is the language barrier, besides that if you are white and go to some of the tier-2 cities it's easy as fuck.

>>2790039 (OP)
Are you American? Maybe don't go to China until the orange clown is out of office.

>>2790224
I don't doubt China is amazing and Chongqing looks like the most cyberpunk city in the world and as for the things about casual hook ups than yeah, maybe it's something I visit in 3 years, not this year.

I don't get you man? I have 80k, own my apartment still paying off, 2 year car...and literally NO ONE is interested in me here in Sydney. NO ONE. And yes 30s women is what I seek and I have the money to go on trips but the question is where.

Until this point all travel has been culture and living my dreams kindof travel but now I've done most of that and even revisited my favorite spots and I want a wife or a partner...and to not die alone and would like the next trip to involve the potential to meet one.

As a person that's never been to Europe I honestly struggle to understand you a bit, haven't seen much of that but yes it would seem Berlin and Italy are big chances. Can you say anymore. Should I do an organised tour and risk being stuck on a tour with shitheads?

I see so Germany there will be some like-minded people I guess.

>>2790242
White Australian, and yes I fear that about Europe another 5 weeks not talking to anyone but the café staff.

In Europe can you just get a drink alone like people do in Thailand?

>>2790244
I am ok with 30-35 I am 41 so that's fine most still look ok. Very cool man, we are in the same boat, how did you go, how many did you get how did you meet and communicate with them? Google Translate?

>>2790250
With apps? What's the go there?
>>2790257
Aussie

Anymore Wizard want to help me?

>hi I'm Australian and our women are ugly and fat and terrible people can someone please tell me where I can visit where I can meet a woman who is thin and attractive and maybe a nice person? I tried to take care of myself and have a good career and everything but there aren't any attractive women and I don't know what to do can someone....

The burden of being an Australian man. You can see why the English left for the new world.

>>2790244
A new half as in a tranny/ladyboi?

>>2790039 (OP)
Depends. I just came back from my China trip. China is like one big open mall where you can find near anything. It's overstimulating though.

>Italy/Greece/Germany
I would pick Greece out of these.

>New Zealand
Looks like a beautiful place, but never been.

>>2791647
>Depends. I just came back from my China trip. China is like one big open mall where you can find near anything. It's overstimulating though.

is that a good or bad thing?

>New Zealand is cheap
I live here, no it's not.

At your age there would be plenty of women (In NZ/AUS) that have finished riding the cock-carousel and would 'settle down' with almost any man that treats them nicely and isn't problematically ugly. But also if you can't get women in your home country going somewhere else won't help.

I would recommend Europe, I enjoyed Germany far more than I expected to and even tourist-slop places like Praque are fun.

>>2791647
>China is like one big open mall where you can find near anything. It's overstimulating though.
China really is what Japan was 20 years ago

it makes me dizzy when I consider how much sex I would have in China. Milfs, new halfs, women my age, mature 30yos, maybe even gilfs, I don't know. It seems like there are enough people to offer basically any type of encounter a man could want. It's sorta like what >>2791647 has said. A big open mall where you can find a lot of stuff.

Women come up to you to chat. Many are blind to you being average, goofy, or even retarded. There is someone for everyone there and it's great.

t. there for 2 weeks in 2014.

>>2790039 (OP)
China seems pretty wild the more i see about it that isnt anti china propaganda. Itd be cool to see their crazy city's.

New Zealand would be based for some nature stuff.

Italy and greece would be super cool for the historical buildings and cool food.

Cool choices. Id go for italy. I like old buildings and nice food. Ive done so much hiking already and china might be too much of a culture shock.

2791698
Truth is I can't attract them, must be ugly. Not fat, blue eyes, 6ft, own apartment, $70k, and I have a 30-year-old woman with herpes friendzoning me. She's broke and hasn't had a date for 3 weeks. Her last one was a crazy left winger who hadn't been without a BF for 18 years and was keen to get anyone and everyone ASAP. I presume NZ will offer me more of the same?
NZ is cheaper than Australia I reckon. So not cheap, but you know, not Hong Kong or New York.
No, no—going somewhere else does help. I had more sex in Japan in a year than my entire life in Australia. Getting off night shift and living in the days also gets me running into more women and makes me feel better.
Did you travel solo to Europe? I'm having OCD issues with Europe, thinking if I go I have to do this, I have to see DJs like Kavinsky or Jarre that would never come to Australia, and that I just have to see and do everything. I dunno—OCD or something.

2791702
China is winning on interest levels and money levels, but losing on the "I would prefer the chance to date a western girl..." front.

2791703
I fucking love the newhalfs

2791722
There is no city like Chongqing in the world as far as I can tell, and its history is even cooler.

2791722
Thank you!

I am very quiet and still kinda shy sadly so tend to rely on apps but they don't work at this age and stage. I am filtered out

I was thinking about doing some kindof tour, not Contiki I am too old for that but do people think there are any more notable tour companies or places singles might go on tour. Last time I did a tour I got a Russian mum and son next to me and before that two stinky fat Italians...this was in Ireland, it really can be all or nothing and if you get shit people you'd rather be walking around alone...

>>2791702
Yes this is a good comparison. It's a shame that China has no popular culture that's appealing to the west except for gacha games, and that the language sounds so revolting. Nobody sane is actually going to be motivated to make an effort to learn Chinese.

>>2791762
what the fuck are you doing, you stupid redditor retard

>>2790146
>>2790244
>>2790250
>>2791703
>>2791762
how do you meet women in china/japan? in my experience they don't speak any english and it's just awkward as shit

>>2791812
I can only speak for Japan but living there was the number one thing that got me over the line, the circumstantial sex...google translate, being 8 years younger and having blue eyes. Almost everything was from the app though as I was a autisimo then and now I am older autisimo

To update the thread, starting in Greece to Italy and then Germany is firming as my favorite...I am not gonna speak to one fucking person am I?

Anymore wisdom bros

>>2792811
put self improvement before chasing pussy if you're under 30 and haven't created a foundation of skills and assets yet

>>2792811
"Anymore" is not the same as "Any more"
hope this helps

>>2792946
Brah I am 41, the self improvement ark passed 15 years ago. Also I have assets, don't let that stop you on your self improvement journey though. You can start with reading before replying
>>2792950
Cheers Nagger.

>>2790039 (OP)
About to be a dangerous time to travel internationally, what if you get caught by surprise? Bad time to be going through customs.

>>2790039 (OP)
Greece, particularly the Greek islands.

>>2790385
>In Europe can you just get a drink alone like people do in Thailand?
If you go to a third world shithole for sex tourists like Budapest or Belgrade yeah, otherwise no retard.

>>2793833
Hmm not encouraging. Budapest looks good, Paris looks like a third world shithole and London kinda is (been there) where is this first world Europe you talking about dicktits?

>>2794907
Swiss

>>2794907
>Paris looks like a third world shithole
insane take
you either never been to Paris or to an actual 3rd world shithole

Paris has really bad arrondissements but also really, really nice ones
and yes, the tourist hotspots are bad, just don't go there

but of course if you book the cheapest hotel / hostels
and expect a 100% impeccable city
you're gonna be disappointed

>where is this first world Europe you talking about
almost all of Germany, BeNeLux, the Nordics, Austria, Switzerland, Ireland
large parts of France, Spain, Italy, Poland, Slovenia
and at least some parts (usually parts of the Capital or around big companies) of every other EU country

>>2794942
I don't know why I'd go to Swiss, girls probably demanding a 10 property portfolio for a kiss on the cheek. I am solid, not rich though.

>>2794945
I see, I want a white gf though not an immigrant haha, to be fair the places of France that look most interesting are the charming, charming country towns the Tour De France rolls thoughs, It's a holiday of part culture and part woman searching I guess...

Also I don't have any options other than to drink alone...

EURO too fucking strong for the AUD looking at closer to home now sadly

>>2794945
>Italy, Poland, Slovenia
LOL

>>2790039 (OP)
If you go to Eastern Europe, somewhere Iike Latvia, you will get all the pussy you want

>>2797191
If you're rich enough to get pussy in America yeah. It's not 1989 anymore dude. They have Instagram there too, they know what a Maybach is and even the local village drug dealer's son has one.

>>2797196
Maydock, village what? Speak English you prick.

>>2797191
And that would be what I want as well, even Russian girls are fine, so many of them in Thailand

I'm going to New Zealand...to drive around alone

Anymore wisdom...not many NZ lasses on Interpals.

>>2790039 (OP)
Anywhere, as long as I get away from these american bird brains

I just want some kids man, gotta passport bro

>>2790385
You have limiting beliefs and fail to put action.

Im in my 30s and had teens on a reg in Japan. Back when my Japanese was shit as fuck. Women literally dont care as long as you take care of yourself and got Game.

And Game is another word for not giving a fuck, and being persistent with as many women as possible.

t. I was approaching like 20 girls a day for months. After 600 I figured some things out and began to get lays on weekly basis.

Honestly it was hard to adapt to it emotionally, from close to no pussy to weekly pussy. Blew my mind but I earned it.

Money and cars and apartments are nice but wont get you casual sex.

The only difference between regular dudes who fuck and those who dont is: amount of women they talk to with end goal of fucking, per day. Or at least per week.

Apps are for 0.01% dudes
Street is for everyone.

You can outwork devil himself and all the demons he sent to prevent you from getting laid but it will take work.

Stats are dead. Women dont see your achievements as loudly as your personality and belief sets and your approach.

You gotta simply approach more.

>>2802220
What were some of the things you did differently when they finally started to submit to you?

>he waited until 40 to look for an Asian girl
oof
NGMI

t. married my asian qt at 30

>>2802336
OP here, I've had plenty of asian pussy but see the women as last resort as I seek a white woman

>>2802370
>i went with prostitutes as a last resort as i seek a roastie beef sandwich in wheat fields
big oof

>>2802371
Your HAPA kids will be bullied.

>>2802373
>gets mad when reality sets in
>attacks children
Are you sure you're not a female?

>>2802374
Brah I had your wife when she was 18, wouldn't want her now.

>>2790039 (OP)
If you want a challenge I have literally never seen a youtuber do New Zealand right. They always try to do something dorky like rent a van and sleep at every beach park and miss all the cities. Or try to go to a big mountain and then go home. You have to be the dude who finally sees every city, goes to all the best parks, sees glowworms and then conquers NZ getting it all on video and uploading it to youtube.

>>2802664
>fornicator thinks all women are trash like him
>worships the trashiest women of all: white women
wife was virgin when we married.
lol
lmao