>>2807525
Yeah.
I spent a year in Japan (2024).
Being handsome and in the know (adapting to their fashion and ways of doing things) is helpful but I dont think jbw is really strong.
I met Chinese tourists, and those girls were reaaaaally into me and I felt they were much easier to deal with than J girls.
Chinese girls are kinda bro-ish. No nonsense, easy to figure out, read.
J girls are like a closed box of emotions that is always smiling and saying “try me” but it opens arbitrarily.
Of course, eventually I learned to read J girls too, but it took time to master that skill.
If you want to have fun dating and enjoying pleasures of life, China might be better.
That said, I picked Japan because of my overarching interests in their aesthetics, language, marts, cars, history etc.
China I only recently became curious about as their soft power is increasing with AI etc. Id love to visit but I know zero Chinese and not willing to bother with it atm.
I explored working in China for a while and I might give it a shot eventually.
For now honestly I missed white women. Yeah they are difficult. Yeah they smoke and have tattoos (not popular in Japan).
But if you can find the right one shieeet yo boi might get married.