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there's a masculinity crisis because older men are losing their jobs and can't take care of their families, and young men can't get high-paying entry-level jobs because those are all earmarked for women (who then aren't interested in men their own age because women have hypergamy and don't date down)
it's not about anxiety, it's about worthlessness.
when men are worthless, it doesn't help to talk about it, it helps to make them useful, and if you can't make them useful they will just want to kill themselves, which will make them turn to drink, drugs, crime, and other self-destructive activities the purpose of which is to keep them from killing themselves (at least, directly; if they indirectly get themselves killed by doing something retarded then that's alright)
in fact, if "talking about it" is on your list of ways to solve men's problems then you are too incompetent to ever be able to solve this problem. to which a cynic might respond that, that's exactly what people like therapists are doing. the same perverse incentive that governs every other job governs them just as much as well, that is; if the purpose of your job is to solve a given problem, then solving that problem makes you unemployed. so natural selection dictates that all the people who are good at these jobs will put themselves out of work, while all the people who are terrible at them will grow in success.
not that the field of psychology even pretends to want to help men, being more concerned with publishing screeds condemning them for their "toxic masculinity" and asserting that the reason they can't help men isn't because they're incompetent but because men don't want to be helped. it's kind of ironic how profoundly incapable of empathy psychologists are. they're like comedians in that sense, I guess. (nobody's less funny than a comedian.)
